This is what I tell parents to make it easier.

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The question sex therapists get asked more than any other

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A sex therapist explains why it is so hard for many of us to access fantasy, and how to fix that

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Not everyone responds well to the pill

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When it comes to verbal communication during sex, we are not good at communicating what turns us on.

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  • Women are often scared…

You may have heard the term “use it or lose it” about your vagina and thought it was tongue in cheek. I’m actually here to tell you that it isn’t.

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For one brief glorious moment, I went viral on TikTok, and then, unceremoniously, I was killed off.

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Vibrators are not kinky sex toys. They are your friend.

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I didn’t take the opportunity to speak up at the time, but if I had, here’s what I’d say


Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus

Bridging the psychological & medical in sexual health. Sex Therapist & Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Health. Author: #sexpoints

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